A Two-Spirit Journey

The Autobiography of a Lesbian Ojibwa-Cree Elder

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Overview

A compelling, harrowing, but ultimately uplifting story of resilience and self-discovery.

"A Two-Spirit Journey" is Ma-Nee Chacaby’s extraordinary account of her life as an Ojibwa-Cree lesbian. From her early, often harrowing memories of life and abuse in a remote Ojibwa community riven by poverty and alcoholism, Chacaby’s story is one of enduring and ultimately overcoming the social, economic, and health legacies of colonialism.

As a child, Chacaby learned spiritual and cultural traditions from her Cree grandmother and trapping, hunting, and bush survival skills from her Ojibwa stepfather. She also suffered physical and sexual abuse by different adults, and in her teen years became alcoholic herself. At twenty, Chacaby moved to Thunder Bay with her children to escape an abusive marriage. Abuse, compounded by racism, continued, but Chacaby found supports to help herself and others. Over the following decades, she achieved sobriety; trained and worked as an alcoholism counsellor; raised her children and fostered many others; learned to live with visual impairment; and came out as a lesbian. In 2013, Chacaby led the first gay pride parade in Thunder Bay.

Ma-Nee Chacaby has emerged from hardship grounded in faith, compassion, humour, and resilience. Her memoir provides unprecedented insights into the challenges still faced by many Indigenous people.

Reviews

“From groundbreaking and controversial AIDS awareness programs in the 1990s to the work she continues to do today, both with her own family and her extended reserve family, her life and this memoir ultimately serve as handbook of hope.”

Lara Rae, Winnipeg Free Press

"A Two-Spirit Journey is a raw and emotional story that doesn’t just show readers the author’s scars. Chacaby bares all in an honest telling of her life that includes flaws, like her struggles with substance abuse and a sometimes rocky path to sobriety. Despite the turmoil, the autobiography does have its uplifting moments and characters. Heartwarming stories of childhood friendships, and most importantly a powerful relationship between the author and her grandmother, weave feelings of optimism and hope into a life that is oftentimes surrounded by darkness.”

Scott Paradis, tbnewswatch.com

“An excellent memoir that gives readers, whether Indigenous or not, a direct connection to the past and to a personal story about gender, sexuality, overcoming adversity, and becoming a leader, an activist, a healer, and an inspiration to two-spirit individuals everywhere.”

Robert Bittner, The Canadian Journal of Native Studies

“Leveraging the storytelling traditions that she learned as a young girl in Ombabika, Ont., this autobiography is rich in detail and reads like taking tea with a wise and dear grandmother. Plummer’s role is evident in the way the book is organized, but she is otherwise unobtrusive, facilitating rather than obfuscating Chacaby’s narration.”

Publishers Weekly

"A memoir of great scope and beauty, exploring with gender and sexuality, her Ojibwa-Cree cultural heritage, colonialism, and resilience."

Sarah Neilson, L.A. Review of Books

“The entire narrative is delivered in a voice so authentic that it feels more like listening to someone telling a story at a kitchen table than reading a memoir alone in bed.”

Rachel Carlson, herizons magazine

“Activist, survivor, mother, counsellor, Ma-Nee Chacaby recounts her sometimes harrowing life with a calm and steady voice, infused with resilience and compassion. Effectively designed and edited to appeal to both the general public and those engaged in Indigenous studies, A Two-Spirit Journey presents an important story, powerfully told.”

Nik Burton, Rick Walker, and Carolyn Wood, Judges, 2017 Manitoba Book Awards

“This book comes at a critical time in Canada’s history, and is an educational text crucial to understanding some of the issues that First Nations communities confront today.”

Emily Rivas, This Magazine

“The story that Chacaby and Plummer recount is truly an extraordinary one, but it is also one that will resonate with many people whose stories have not been often told. The perspective of a lesbian Ojibwa-Cree elder is invaluable for LGBT Native youth and will be an enriching experience for many others, particularly those who have experienced abuse, disability, poverty, or the effects of colonization.”

Kai Pyle, Studies in American Indian Literatures

“An extraordinary account of an extraordinary life and very highly recommended for community and academic library Contemporary Biography, LGBT, and Native American Studies collections.”

Midwest Book Review

Awards

Winner
Alison Prentice Award, Ontario Historical Society (2018)
Winner
Oral History Association Book Award (2017)
Short-listed
Lesbian Memoir/Biography, Lamdba Literary Awards (2016)
Short-listed
Publishing Triangle Award for Trans and Gender-Variant Literature (2016)

About the Authors

is a Two-Spirit Ojibwa-Cree Elder. She was raised by her Cree grandmother in a remote Ojibwa community near Lake Nipigon, Ontario.

Mary Louisa Plummer is a social scientist and a long-time friend of Ma-Nee’s. Much of her professional work has focused on public health and children’s rights.

Table of Contents

Ch. 1 My Grandmother’s and My Family’s History in Manitoba and Ontario
Ch. 2 First Discoveries and Sorrows – My Early Childhood in Ombabika
Ch. 3 Seasonal Activities, First Friendships, and the Beginning of Addiction
Ch. 4 S chool, Teenage Friendship, and Having Two-Spirits
Ch. 5 Losing My Grandmother and My Mother, Becoming a Parent, and Surviving an Abusive Marriage
Ch. 6 Living and Parenting Before Sobriety
Ch. 7 Sobriety and Single Parenting
Ch. 8 Marrying by Choice, Working with Addicted Mothers, and Fostering Kids
Ch. 9 Coming Out, Falling in Love, and Living with Leah
Ch. 10 Single Life, Meeting Grace, and Building a Life Together
Ch. 11 Recovering from Post–Traumatic Stress Disorder and Becoming an Elder

Afterword – by Mary Louisa Plummer