Fighting Shame through Love – A Conversation with Daniel Heath Justice
From Masculindians: Conversations about Indigenous Manhood
Sam McKegney: Can literature and story and even critical theory unpack and reverse some of that stigmatization or—I don’t even know if I want to use the word stigmatization because I don’t know if it adequately speaks to what I’ve been trying to get at—but rather this elision of the sensual male body?
One of the scenes I’m proudest of in The Way of Thorn & Thunder is the scene with Tobhi and Quill, their love scene. I love that. Tobhi’s a scrapper but he’s nervous when he’s with his beloved. And he’s made it clear: he’s had sex before, this isn’t his first time. We don’t necessarily assume it’s Quill’s first time; it might be, we don’t know. But he’s nervous, he’s scared, like guys get, you know? Even in the age of Internet porn that’s just all about exploitation and really degrading treatment, guys get spooked, guys get scared and nervous and excited and want to bring pleasure. So Tobhi, he’s nervous and it’s Quill who guides him and she’s gentle and he responds in kind. And it’s a very loving moment. That’s one of my favourite scenes in the whole story because it’s such a tender scene, and it’s a straight scene, right? I mean, I didn’t write a hot queer scene with that one. It’s just these two very sweet, loving people who just want… it’s about giving to one another. There’s nothing about taking. Or if it’s taking, it’s after it’s been given, you know, this reciprocity.
Those kinds of scenes, those kinds of stories, when we talk with other men, talk about the pleasures given rather than simply the pleasures received. Even now, I don’t know if there are a lot of conversations about, “Yeah, well, the first time I made someone climax, what was that like?” No, that’s not the story we often hear. We hear, “My first climax.” Well, what about the first time you gave pleasure to somebody else? And that’s sexual pleasure. What about the time when you hugged someone and it was exactly what they needed. That’s a warrior’s act, as well, to know what’s needed to be done and to do it boldly and without need of response.
To fight against shame through love.
Daniel Heath Justice is a Colorado-born Canadian citizen of the Cherokee Nation. He is the author of Our Fire Survives the Storm: A Cherokee Literary History (University of Minnesota Press, 2006) and numerous critical essays in the field of Indigenous literary studies. With James Cox, he is the co-editor of The Oxford Handbook of Indigenous American Literature (Oxford, 2013). He’s also the author of the Indigenous epic fantasy novel The Way of Thorn and Thunder: The Kynship Chronicles (University of New Mexico Press, 2011). He is currently chair of First Nations Studies at University of British Columbia.
Sam McKegney is a settler scholar of Indigenous literatures. He grew up in Anishinaabe territory on the Saugeen Peninsula along the shores of Lake Huron and currently resides with his partner and their two daughters in traditional lands of the Haudenosaunee and Anishinaabe peoples where he is an Associate Professor and Graduate Chair in the English Department at Queen’s University. He has published a collection of interviews entitled Masculindians: Conversations about Indigenous Manhood, a monograph entitled Magic Weapons: Aboriginal Writers Remaking Community after Residential School, and articles on such topics as environmental kinship, masculinity theory, prison writing, Indigenous governance, and Canadian hockey mythologies. View books by Sam McKegney.